Teddy and Mrs. Thompson
There is a story many years ago of an elementary school
teacher. Her name was Mrs.
Thompson. And as she stood in
front of her fifth grade class on the very first day of school, she told
the children a lie. Like most
teachers, she looked at her students and said that she loved them all the
same. But that was
impossible, because there in the front row, slumped in his seat, was a
little boy named Teddy Stodard. Mrs.
Thompson had watched Teddy the year before and noticed that he didn't play
well with the other children, that his clothes were messy and that he
constantly needed a bath. And
Teddy could be unpleasant. It
got to the point where Mrs. Thompson would actually take delight in
marking his papers with a broad red pen, making bold X's and then putting
a big "F" at the top of his papers.
At the school where Mrs. Thompson taught, she was required to
review each child's past records and she put Teddy's off until last.
However, when she reviewed his file, she was in for a surprise.
Teddy's first grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is bright
with a ready laugh. He does his work neatly and has good manners.
He is a joy to be around."
His second grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is an
excellent student, well- liked by his classmates, but he is troubled
because his mother has a terminal illness and life at home must be a
struggle."
His third grade teacher wrote, "His mother's death
has been hard on him. He
tries to do his best, but his father doesn't show much interest, and his
home life will soon affect him if some steps aren't taken."
Teddy's fourth grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is
with-drawn and doesn't show much interest in school. He doesn't have many friends and sometimes sleeps in
class."
By now, Mrs. Thompson realized the problem and she was
ashamed of herself. She felt
even worse when her students brought her Christmas presents, wrapped in
beautiful ribbons and bright paper, except for Teddy's.
His present was clumsily wrapped in the heavy, brown paper that he
got from a grocery bag period. Mrs.
Thompson took pains to open it in the middle of the other presents.
Some of the children started to laugh when she found a rhinestone
bracelet with some of the stones missing and a bottle that was one-quarter
full of perfume. But she
stifled the children's laughter when she exclaimed how pretty the bracelet
was. She put it on, dabbing
some of the perfume on her wrist. Teddy
Stodard stayed after school that day just long enough to say, "Mrs.
Thompson, today you smelled just like my mom used to."
After the children left, she cried for at least an hour.
On that very day, she quit teaching reading, writing, and
arithmetic. Instead, she
began to teach children. Mrs.
Thompson paid particular attention to Teddy.
As she worked with him, his mind seemed to come alive.
The more she encouraged him, the faster he responded.
By the end of the year, Teddy had become one of the smartest
children in the class, and, despite her lie that she would love all the
children the same, Teddy became one of her "pets."
A year later, she found a note under her door, from
Teddy, telling her that she was still the best teacher he ever had in his
whole life. Six years went by
before she got another note from Teddy.
He then wrote that he had finished high school, third in his class,
and she was still the best teacher he ever had in his whole life.
Four years after that, she got another letter, saying
that while things had been tough at times, he stayed in school, had stuck
with it and would soon graduate from college with the highest of honors.
He assured Mrs. Thompson that she was still the best and favorite
teacher he ever had in his whole life.
Then four more years passed and yet another letter came.
This time he explained that after he got his bachelor's degree, he
decided to go a little further. The
letter explained that she was still the best and favorite teacher he ever
had. But now his name was a
little longer. The letter was
signed, Theodore F. Stodard,
M.D.
The
story doesn't end there. You see, there was yet another letter that spring.
Teddy said he met this girl and was going to be married.
He explained that his father had died a couple of years ago and he
was wondering if Mrs. Thompson might
agree to sit in the place at the wedding that was usually reserved for the
mother of the groom. Of
course, Mrs. Thompson did. And guess what?
She wore that bracelet, the one with several rhinestones missing.
And she made sure that she was wearing the perfume that Teddy
remembered his mother wearing on their last Christmas together. They hugged each other, and Dr. Stodard whispered in Mrs.
Thompson' ear, "Thank you, Mrs. Thompson, for believing in me.
Thank you so much for making me feel important and showing me that
I can make a difference." Mrs.
Thompson, with tears in her eyes, whispered back. She said, "Teddy,
you have it all wrong. You
were the one who taught me that I could make a difference.
I didn't know how to teach until I met you." |